Dating Defense

Plays you make to avoid getting Played

6 Ways Men Who Are Players Manipulate And Con Women!

May 14, 2013
signs youre dating a lying cheating manipulating man

There are common traits you will observe in men who are Playas.  These traits are easily identifiable if you know what to look for.  There are 6 characteristics men who are Playas use to manipulate and con women into submission. Let’s go through a few of them. Peep Game: 1.     Charm – Charm [...]


Five Things You Should Never Share With Your Boyfriend

April 29, 2013
what's mine is mine and what's your we share

I recently received a really juicy “Ask Butta“ question that I will post in the coming weeks.  Since there are a few other juicy questions in line before that wonderful question, I want to Spit A Little Game on the subject of SHARING that I think that questioner could use NOW and that all of [...]


Three Major Clues You’re Dating A Cheater!

April 19, 2013
3 ways to spot a cheater

Ladies, peep this game and learn how to spot a cheater.  FOR THE RECORD, the following article was written by a man… VIA THE HUFFINGTON POST If you’re over the age of 20 — and you haven’t been living with your head in the sand — it should come as no surprise that some men [...]


The Real Reason Nelly Dumped Ashanti! (Was She Really Just His Placeholder Woman?)

April 7, 2013
the real reason nelly dumped ashanti

Earlier this week rap star Nelly talked a bit about relationships and the possibility of marriage with VLAD TV.  Most of you know Nelly dated beautiful R&B singer Ashanti for what?  Like 7+ years.  The two recently broke up and allegedly Nelly is now dating a video vixen…who…is also gorgeous.  Although Nelly doesn’t say Ashanti’s [...]


Mack Talk: Assess The Playing Field Before You Jump In

April 4, 2013
dating tips: scope out a scene before you jump in

Okay, so a lot of you are going to clubs and meeting men who are (A) no good or (B) involved with another woman.  I’m going to give you some tips on how to SPOT a PLAYA (even in the club) so that you don’t waste time or energy on a man who’s no good. [...]


The Truth With Buttafly Jonez: Are You Supporting Your Man Too Much?

March 27, 2013
are you helping your boyfriend too much

There’s a big difference between supporting your man and supporting your man!  Let’s look at that ladies…because if SUPPORT got men and kept men…some of y’all wouldn’t be SINGLE! Peep Game: A lot of women today are doing the most in relationships, yet they can’t keep a man for squat.  What gives?  Most relationship experts [...]


Former Escort Reveals The Reasons WHY Men Cheat

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February 6, 2013

Escort Rebecca Dakin had sex with 900 men before closing her vagina shop to become a DATING COACH and INFIDELITY EXPERT!  Dakin claims 9 years in the sex business gave her a perspective on men and infidelity that women can learn from. She believes her experiences sleeping with married men can help couples stay together [...]


Peep Game! This Is Why Some Women Are Attracted To Lying, Cheating, Deceiving Men + How To Unhook From This Unhealthy Pattern!

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December 20, 2012

Some women are unconsciously attracted to men who…will hurt them.  They select partners over and over who abuse and misuse them.  When that relationship ends, they often pick up with ANOTHER Cat who does the same thing.  According to one sex/relationship expert, the attraction to men who lie, cheat, and deceive comes from psychological and emotional values formed in childhood.  Basically, some [...]


Have You Been Brainwashed To SUCK and F**K Like A Good Ho#???

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December 11, 2012

When I wrote the post, “Are You Following A Pimp Down The Path To Relationship Disaster?”  I was revealing the Game on how (some) men use media (books, music, videos, and movies) to program women TO DO WHAT THEY WANT THEM TO DO! In that post, I mentioned the so-called relationship experts who are selling women [...]


Woman Fell In Love With A Guy She Met Online…But All He Wanted Was Her Money!

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November 29, 2012

A while back I wrote about a guy called “The Hard Luck Playa.”  I described this guy as a man who is “looking to gain sympathy as a means of opening (a woman up) to manipulation.  He may want to use your credit or your car. It will always be something financial.  He’s not interested in you, [...]


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