The only limitations on what you can do with a man…are the beliefs you hold about men, dating, and relationships. What YOU believe becomes your experience–without exception.
The conversation most women have in their minds about men kind of goes like this:
“I think he’s cute. I hope he likes me.”
“I would love to date him, but I don’t know if I’m his type.”
“I hope I can keep this guy.”
“I really want this relationship to work.”
“What’s wrong with me? What am I doing wrong? Why won’t he commit to me?”
That kind of self-talk often goes on underneath the surface, and it sabotages…limits…and destroys women’s GAME.
You see, a Playa doesn’t think like that! A Playa is confident in him/herself and operates (in life and love) accordingly. Their self-talk varies greatly from the average Joe/Jane. Instead of the script above, the Playa’s mind is working like this:
“Wow! He’s nice looking. I’d love to have him.”
“I think I’ll try that! Yes, I will.”
“He’s probably not used to kicking it with a chick like me, but that’ll make him like me even more.”
“Let me make my way over to him. All eyes on me as always.”
“This is going to be fun!”
“I’m in charge. He can’t resist me!”
Do you see the difference?
Now, (some) men would love for you to think a woman can’t seduce, tame or Game a man. They will fight you tooth and nail on that idea. And while they sell you the ‘idea’ that men can’t be Gamed, tamed or seduced–in effect PLAYED–NOTICE THAT THEY consistently affirm their own power. #peepgame
“The only power a woman has is what’s between her legs. And since that’s something I can get from any woman…women have little control over what I say and do.”
“If you don’t look like ___, ____, or ____…you aren’t all that (meaning not able to reel in men at will).”
Many women run around buying into that bull—t. They develop low self-esteem and start operating from that mind space.
“I think he might like me.”
“If I do this, this and this, he’ll probably like me more.”
“I’ll prove to him I’m loyal, down, and here for him.”
“I gotta give him sex because otherwise he’ll go to the next chick and leave me.”
The truth is…we are all empowered to create our own experience. God didn’t make man superior to woman. And he didn’t make woman inferior to man. God made man and God made woman. What each does with his/her own God-Given gifts is up to them
Yes, men have some natural tendencies that enable them to Play The Game effectively. But…so do women. A man can use his (God-Gifted) ability to detach with ease, his practical thinking pattern, and other traits to draw women to him and have them jumping through hoops. AND A WOMAN can use her God-Gifted ability to entice men through sight and smell, her gift of gab and other traits to attract, seduce, and Play men.
You see, a woman is working with more than men (when it comes to The Game).
- She has what men want, and she can control when they get it and how much of it they get.
- Her tendency to over think situations is an analytical skill that can help her see angles guys just don’t take the time to see.
- Her gift of gab can be used to confuse and confound her Target guy. (A man might talk the pants off of a woman, but a woman who knows The Game can have a man’s head split wide open)
- Women can use scent to increase the draw of their natural (man-drawing) hormones (aka pheremones) . Perfumes and exotic oils have been used for centuries by women to heighten the power of seduction through smell.
- While a man’s seduction of a woman begins and ends in her ear, a woman’s seduction of a man happens visually. She can manipulate her Target with her appearance alone. Men are suckers for looks. So many men historically have been seduced by a woman’s beauty–by a wise woman’s ability to appear one way or another at will.
You can believe what some men want you to believe…and keep benefitting them. Or, you can recognize your own power and create a new (dating) life for yourself.
You truly can have any man you want do anything you want…IF YOU KNOW HOW TO APPROPRIATE THE RULES OF THE GAME!
Should you find yourself questioning your own power or any of the principles of GAME found on this blog, I want you TO CONSIDER THIS:
In every area of life, there are masters and there are failures.
There are people who know how to rotate in business, relationships, finances, etc and benefit…and there are people who don’t know which way is up.
There are winners and there are losers.
There are people who Pimp The Game and People That H*e Up!
Which one are you?
Yes, you can have the man of your dreams…or a tribe of them muthaf*ckers. It’s up to you! I can teach you how to Run Game…but you have to believe you can do it! You have to stop allowing people in this world who don’t want to see you grow —>>>>B**** you too old! Girl, you ain’t cute enough. Woman, all you have is what’s between your legs —>>>> control how you think about yourself.
In 2012, a woman can BE what she wants, HAVE what she wants and WHOMEVER she wants—if she feels worthy and takes the time to learn how to acquire that particular thing.
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Now, I’ve told you WHAT YOU CAN HAVE. In the next episode of Confessions of a Female Mack I will tell you HOW TO GET IT! Stay tuned for this video:
“How to get any man you want to do anything you want”
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Until next time…Don’t hate the Player, learn the Game!